
Don’t stick your head in the sand!
Seems a bit off to say that confronting someone can lead to a path of great business teamwork, right?
This is where many people and companies go astray. Having a high degree of respectful confront is one of the healthiest attributes any small business or organization can have. In small business coaching and helping entrepreneurs, I’ve taken this lesson from home -being a husband, father, and friend.
Your relationship with anyone will be more genuine and have more ability to accomplish almost anything if you are willing to embrace confrontation. Confrontation does not have to lead to adversarial and “make-wrong” differences. It is simply two or more intelligent human beings delivering a difference of perspectives based on experiences, education, and feelings of any situation or matter. People definitely see things differently and that’s a great thing. Use the intellect and experiences of those people to make decisions that are sound due to more input.
The key here, especially in small business, is to get everyone on the same page and pulling in the same direction. Everyone must agree after a decision is made, to go out into the workplace and work towards the fulfillment of the decision, even if he or she did not agree in the first place. This is a team. This also leads to attainment of goals and ultimate team and company success.
The saying “agree to disagree” is true. And whether it’s your spouse or your business, know that the more input via healthy confront you can get, the better off you will be, ultimately. No one likes to be brought down by disagreement and when we learn to live with it and know it is not personal, the better off we will be, in life and in business. We may soon come to enjoy it, if it leads to better outcomes.
Learn to confront others in a healthy manner. By that, I mean in a manner that does not make him or her wrong for their opinion. This will lead to further openings for more and better communication in the future.
Don’t make things personal. Stick to the facts and to the business at hand. Once decisions are reached, get agreement on tasks and make sure everyone involved is agreeing to head down the same path – have a plan that everyone sticks to, even those who may not have agreed at the start.
Don’t stick your head in the sand!
The degree to which anything or anyone is successful is directly related to the degree of confront that can be reached. Get to high levels of healthy confront, and success will be on your heels.
Remember: Go BIG, make a difference in someone’s life today, and don’t get out-worked or out-smarted, even if there’s more talent out there.
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Bret Snyder is published monthly in a local periodical, “Montana Parent Magazine”. Check out the April 2012 issue here:
Marketing is so funny to me at times because it gets confused or eaten up by some sales division person as a part of sales and what that division does. Just think for a moment, many companies and organization have “Sales and Marketing Directors” – why? In the end, these two Segments, like all other Segments in the organization, do have to work well together and they are not the same, by a long shot.


